What are mom

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My son Has the syndrome Downlines

 

This article focuses on the moments of raising a child with down syndrome. Just want to note that I write only my own experience. Don’t know how many different opinions there are on this. A unified system of education no — that’s why so many discrepancies. Blame the system and to agree with another may not, so just present the facts.

Let me begin with the first days. I learned about the diagnosis of her son back to the family table (the phenotype) when I didn’t want to give it up. On — worse. None of my relatives wanted me to come. Nobody. In my family there is a worship study, and «perfect man», so that the defective child absolutely did not fit. Remember those days not very desirable. Whatever you say — I put a huge bolt on all the exhortations of those who was supposed to support me. It was hard, sad and painful. Saved me the realization that I love my child and would never be able to live with the fact that she dumped him. Today we all made it up, because the family — the most important thing in life.

The first thing I want to highlight: the biggest mistake that can be avoided by parents of children with disabilities — lock it up at home. About other diagnoses not speak, but I assure you — now opportunities for social adaptation so wide that almost all children Continue reading

Why is the child crying?

 

The child wants to eat, so he cries. A child may eat less breast milk, formula, cereal, it depends on the child’s mood, the weather outside, nastroenia in the family, the living conditions of the child in the apartment. If your child eats less food, then the stored energy is not enough for the same period of time. If a child feels hungry, he starts to cry and demand a meal, to attract his mother’s attention. To ensure that the child was not crying, his need to feed. However it is not necessary to feed the baby every time he cried because you create a situation of overfeeding.

The child is hot or cold, so he cries . At high temperature in the house, inappropriate child care may appear diaper rash, which give the child more discomfort in the form of itching. In order to resolve the cry in such situations it is necessary to undress the child for some time has been without diapers, if the apartment is too hot. Or, if the apartment is 18-20 degrees, it is necessary to wrap it.

If you drop the baby head cap, the cooling process takes place faster. You should not create a draught in the room where the child is. To ventilate the room where the child, must. Baby clothing should Continue reading

Thematic meeting for parents on the topic of Our mistakes in the upbringing of children

 

All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.

In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?

A promise not to love

“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”

The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!

Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.

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What are mom

 

Mama — Baba Yaga

— Don’t eat, the doctor will come and give you a shot!

— Please hurry home, and then comes the bogeyman and drag you with me!

— You will not obey a police officer will pick you up!

— Don’t run away, get lost, and there was Baba-Yaga!

And why not to scare? He has something to fear. Otherwise, generally not to cope! We, when we were little, my mom listened to and feared.

— The time to sleep! March to their rooms! Only go for a minute to kiss grandma and dad. Nothing to ramble and whine, it’s time to sleep. I told you! Yes, and at night don’t need to jump, to run, to cry, to include light, call grandma, you’re big kids, remember what I said!

Get acquainted with the following character — mommy — Baba-Yaga.

This mom is trying to achieve the obedience of a child, threatening his requirements, ensuring obedience with anger and annoyance. If the little man does things differently then most often should be the punishment, including physical.

Baba Yaga rudely and peremptorily talking to children, only she knows what to do, so she points out, charge, head, diminishes a sense of their dignity, will not tolerate independence of children. She is easily Continue reading

Mom, I’m scared!

 

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child. “Don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong. I realized this later on tonight.

The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told Continue reading

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