This article focuses on the moments of raising a child with down syndrome. Just want to note that I write only my own experience. Don’t know how many different opinions there are on this. A unified system of education no — that’s why so many discrepancies. Blame the system and to agree with another may not, so just present the facts.
Let me begin with the first days. I learned about the diagnosis of her son back to the family table (the phenotype) when I didn’t want to give it up. On — worse. None of my relatives wanted me to come. Nobody. In my family there is a worship study, and «perfect man», so that the defective child absolutely did not fit. Remember those days not very desirable. Whatever you say — I put a huge bolt on all the exhortations of those who was supposed to support me. It was hard, sad and painful. Saved me the realization that I love my child and would never be able to live with the fact that she dumped him. Today we all made it up, because the family — the most important thing in life.
The first thing I want to highlight: the biggest mistake that can be avoided by parents of children with disabilities — lock it up at home. About other diagnoses not speak, but I assure you — now opportunities for social adaptation so wide that almost all children Continue reading
Beloved children. All they are allowed. All they are allowed. Sweets? Please. The cartoons? To health. Don’t want to walk? Well, okay. Toy assemble forces there? Nothing, mother collect. No refusal, no ban. Whence then comes a spoiled child? And how he will show his character, so hold on all: and grandmothers, and grandfathers, and mothers with fathers. And how to return back the little angel as he at first seemed, no one knows. Because the kid knows how to manipulate adults. If you do not cry, tears, if not tears, tantrums. What to do about that?
So little Karina. Cute 6-year-old girl. The only baby in the family. Favorite all. And because much spoiled. Karina in subjection to all the relatives. If one is trying to blame the girl, the other will certainly fit to stand up in its defense. If someone from adults and believes that the extra time would deny another adult certainly seem that this is too strict. So Karina gets what she wants, and at the same moment, when she asks about it.
Most of all I love the baby grandmother. They got over two. And each vying tries to please his beloved granddaughter. But why not appreciate Marinochka their efforts. Slightly raises a cry and grandmothers have already learned how to swear. Even Continue reading
This year your child will become a schoolboy . You as a mother overcomes many of the parent concerns: “Like him in school?”, “Will they be able to learn well?”, “Would it not be to overwork?”, etc. And the child… does not want to school . Why so happens and is it possible to create for the child a positive image of the school . so he began to dream about his first call, and not to be afraid of him? Tell the site “Beautiful and Successful”!
Why the child may not want to go to school?
Generally most kids wanted to become students . But if not, don’t despair – there’s still time to solve the problem “the child does not want to school”! And to start is to understand why this problem actually arose ?
The most common, according to reasons:
The school as a “horror story”. “Threats to school” is often used by preschool teachers in kindergarten and even, without noticing it, parents! Naughty kid say, “Well in school you will not allow this!”, “This is me “on the ears stand”, and the teachers that you just will not despise!”, “Going into school, they will know what real discipline, quickly cease to indulge!”, Continue reading