Mama — Baba Yaga
— Don’t eat, the doctor will come and give you a shot!
— Please hurry home, and then comes the bogeyman and drag you with me!
— You will not obey a police officer will pick you up!
— Don’t run away, get lost, and there was Baba-Yaga!
And why not to scare? He has something to fear. Otherwise, generally not to cope! We, when we were little, my mom listened to and feared.
— The time to sleep! March to their rooms! Only go for a minute to kiss grandma and dad. Nothing to ramble and whine, it’s time to sleep. I told you! Yes, and at night don’t need to jump, to run, to cry, to include light, call grandma, you’re big kids, remember what I said!
Get acquainted with the following character — mommy — Baba-Yaga.
This mom is trying to achieve the obedience of a child, threatening his requirements, ensuring obedience with anger and annoyance. If the little man does things differently then most often should be the punishment, including physical.
Baba Yaga rudely and peremptorily talking to children, only she knows what to do, so she points out, charge, head, diminishes a sense of their dignity, will not tolerate independence of children. She is easily Continue reading
Today’s parents less and less pay attention to, what music to listen to their child, remembering myself at that age and believing that each generation has its idols. From the point of view of pedagogy, this approach can be called quite humane and balanced, as children should have the freedom to choose and to decide what musical direction they prefer.
However, if we consider music not only in the context of intellectual and spiritual development of the child, but from a medical point of view, adults should seriously think about what listening to their baby.
Scientific studies show that classical and folk music has a beneficial effect on both the physical and the spiritual, but also on the psycho-emotional condition of the child, making it more balanced and tolerant towards other people. At the same time, rock and rap are not only the source of negative emotions, and increased aggression.
Experiments with animals and plants have shown that classical music, melodic and harmonious, promotes their growth. At the same time in the greenhouse, where every day sounds rock, flowers die within a week.
When studies have been conducted in the area of influence of rock music, pop music and rap on people, scientists Continue reading
Our children are growing, and with each passing year their fears change. Something remains in the past, something settles deep inside, so that later, in adult life to remind myself that some fear your child is already covered in the school years, and you, as his parent, can help him to overcome all his fictional and fictional “monsters”.
So, what fears “hurt” our children “elementary school” (6-9 years)? First of all, the greatest fear in this period can be called the fear of death, with both your own and loved ones for the baby people. Children 5-6 years become impressionable and consciously perceive very subtle all around. Is no exception and death. If the child learned from my grandmother that someone was killed by lightning, he can transfer this fear to myself: maybe during a thunderstorm to cry and run to mommy, on the one hand, to protect yourself from the other to make sure that mom and nothing happened. In this period we need to keep the child from severe situations. If, for example (God forbid), his grandfather became ill, around the panic rose, and the family calls an ambulance – try to alienate the child from this: persistent worries about the health of loved ones can turn into a phobia. Continue reading