Friendship between a man and a woman. Is it possible?
The problem of friendship between a man and a woman has long been of concern to many psychologists and sociologists in our country and around the world. On this topic conducted surveys and studies, conducted numerous discussions. The main purpose of these studies is to ascertain the possible existence of a true friendship between a man and a woman. Certainly, many of us have also asked this interesting question. And is it possible friendship between a man and a woman ?
The influence of society on the friendship between a man and a woman
According to scientists, the idea that to be friends men and women are not destined, dates back to ancient times. Then the man and woman to be together exclusively on the terms of marriage. Other options simply did not exist.
Today times have changed dramatically. Women and men in our time together, work, rest, exercise regularly, spend the weekend, go shopping, etc. It’s by no means that between them there is a romantic relationship.
Quite a long time in society it was considered that the main purpose of the friendship between a man and a woman is only the creation of family and birth of children. The researchers argue that the friendshipbetween man and woman is either completely ignored, or acknowledged to be insignificant. Continue reading
Memo No. 1 for parents
“Preventing childhood aggression”
1. Try to keep in the family atmosphere of openness and trust.
2. Do not let your child unfulfilled promises, not inspire his soul with unrealistic expectations.
3. Do not put your child any kind had no conditions.
4. Be tactful in the manifestation of the impact on the child.
5. Don’t punish your child for something that you can do yourself.
7. Do not modify its requirements in relation to the child in favor of anything.
8. Do not blackmail the child their relationships with each other.
9. Don’t be afraid to share with the child about their feelings and weaknesses.
10. Do not put your relationship with your own child dependent on his academic success.
11. Remember that your child is clothed! Use it so that it was implemented in full.
Memo No. 2 for parents
“How to deal with an aggressive child?”
1. Ban, and even more “op” will only exacerbate the problem.
2. The sanction must comply with the act.
3. Do not allow yourself outbursts of aggression in the presence of a child, do not use harsh parenting techniques.
Can today’s children to empathize, to respond emotionally to the experience of the other? Unfortunately, the corrosive impact of our television has done its job: the children hard to get up mentally in the place of another person, experiencing some feelings. Scenes of violence led to the fact that children were not sensitive to the pain of another person.
Although children usually stronger empathize than adults, but it is more common in pre-school, early age. Adult touches like 2-3 year old toddlers can chorus to cry because one of them “Bobo”, the surprising insensitivity of 7-year-old boys tormenting a cat with kittens, and affects the cruelty of girls 15 years of age, to death pocketing his classmate. But, after all, they are not born, they have no aggression at age one! Where’s it come from? Yes, I understand that no mother, no father teaches the child to do evil, bad things. But good teaching is not many. At preschool age want parents to understand clearly – aggression often manifests as protection, due to emotional instability. The child at this age is still difficult to understand our complicated adult world of human Continue reading