Friendship between a man and a woman. Is it possible?
The problem of friendship between a man and a woman has long been of concern to many psychologists and sociologists in our country and around the world. On this topic conducted surveys and studies, conducted numerous discussions. The main purpose of these studies is to ascertain the possible existence of a true friendship between a man and a woman. Certainly, many of us have also asked this interesting question. And is it possible friendship between a man and a woman ?
The influence of society on the friendship between a man and a woman
According to scientists, the idea that to be friends men and women are not destined, dates back to ancient times. Then the man and woman to be together exclusively on the terms of marriage. Other options simply did not exist.
Today times have changed dramatically. Women and men in our time together, work, rest, exercise regularly, spend the weekend, go shopping, etc. It’s by no means that between them there is a romantic relationship.
Quite a long time in society it was considered that the main purpose of the friendship between a man and a woman is only the creation of family and birth of children. The researchers argue that the friendshipbetween man and woman is either completely ignored, or acknowledged to be insignificant. Continue reading
Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in Russia. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store are no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What Russians consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, – it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
Amazing result? Actually, the education of the individual in Japanese society is constructed so that this result is a natural consequence of all stages of education, which is a child from birth Continue reading
Memo No. 1 for parents
“Preventing childhood aggression”
1. Try to keep in the family atmosphere of openness and trust.
2. Do not let your child unfulfilled promises, not inspire his soul with unrealistic expectations.
3. Do not put your child any kind had no conditions.
4. Be tactful in the manifestation of the impact on the child.
5. Don’t punish your child for something that you can do yourself.
7. Do not modify its requirements in relation to the child in favor of anything.
8. Do not blackmail the child their relationships with each other.
9. Don’t be afraid to share with the child about their feelings and weaknesses.
10. Do not put your relationship with your own child dependent on his academic success.
11. Remember that your child is clothed! Use it so that it was implemented in full.
Memo No. 2 for parents
“How to deal with an aggressive child?”
1. Ban, and even more “op” will only exacerbate the problem.
2. The sanction must comply with the act.
3. Do not allow yourself outbursts of aggression in the presence of a child, do not use harsh parenting techniques.