This article focuses on the moments of raising a child with down syndrome. Just want to note that I write only my own experience. Don’t know how many different opinions there are on this. A unified system of education no — that’s why so many discrepancies. Blame the system and to agree with another may not, so just present the facts.
Let me begin with the first days. I learned about the diagnosis of her son back to the family table (the phenotype) when I didn’t want to give it up. On — worse. None of my relatives wanted me to come. Nobody. In my family there is a worship study, and «perfect man», so that the defective child absolutely did not fit. Remember those days not very desirable. Whatever you say — I put a huge bolt on all the exhortations of those who was supposed to support me. It was hard, sad and painful. Saved me the realization that I love my child and would never be able to live with the fact that she dumped him. Today we all made it up, because the family — the most important thing in life.
The first thing I want to highlight: the biggest mistake that can be avoided by parents of children with disabilities — lock it up at home. About other diagnoses not speak, but I assure you — now opportunities for social adaptation so wide that almost all children Continue reading
All parents raise their children to the best of my skill and understanding of life and rarely think about why, in certain situations, do so, and not otherwise. However, each mother in life there are moments when the beloved child behavior baffling.
In your mistakes you are not alone, all their parents occasionally do. But always better to learn from the mistakes of others, isn’t it?
A promise not to love
“If you’re not going like I want, I’ll never love you”
The opinion of parents: Why children are so often argue about any of our request? Maybe they’re doing us out of spite. How to be? To appeal to common sense? Yes, they just can’t hear what adults say to them. To threaten? These are no longer valid. “Mommy will no longer love you”. How often do many of us say this phrase!
Advice to parents: a Promise not to love your baby – one of the strongest tools of education. However, this threat is usually not carried out. But I feel fake. Once cheated, you can for a long time to lose the trust of the child – the child will perceive you as people lying.
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News Of Minsk. When the wife of Andrei Minevich left him, he was very worried and believed that she would change her mind. In vain. Tatiana just slammed the door and went underground. It was so deaf that neither the father nor the grandparents didn’t know what happened and where the missing wife, daughter and granddaughter.
Angelina we do not see for a long time, and communicate to us does not give her mother, though, when applying for divorce, the son pointed to not prevent contact with the child. But she today hides it even from us.
What caused such hatred, ex-in-laws don’t know. But if the woman to drive to despair, she is ready for anything.
It will be delivered in Rogachev to his mother, else, say, somewhere, finds, in short, all sorts of fiction, notions and anything else, if only to wean the child away from us forever.
Recall that angelina’s mother left the family when married. A little later the formalities have been settled and the woman remarried, securing thereby horrifying statistics around the country.
Today Belarus is one of the world leaders in the number of divorces. Last year in Minsk for 1,000 marriages had 728 divorces. Continue reading