Mama — Baba Yaga
— Don’t eat, the doctor will come and give you a shot!
— Please hurry home, and then comes the bogeyman and drag you with me!
— You will not obey a police officer will pick you up!
— Don’t run away, get lost, and there was Baba-Yaga!
And why not to scare? He has something to fear. Otherwise, generally not to cope! We, when we were little, my mom listened to and feared.
— The time to sleep! March to their rooms! Only go for a minute to kiss grandma and dad. Nothing to ramble and whine, it’s time to sleep. I told you! Yes, and at night don’t need to jump, to run, to cry, to include light, call grandma, you’re big kids, remember what I said!
Get acquainted with the following character — mommy — Baba-Yaga.
This mom is trying to achieve the obedience of a child, threatening his requirements, ensuring obedience with anger and annoyance. If the little man does things differently then most often should be the punishment, including physical.
Baba Yaga rudely and peremptorily talking to children, only she knows what to do, so she points out, charge, head, diminishes a sense of their dignity, will not tolerate independence of children. She is easily Continue reading
Knowing the interests of the child, we can judge his aspirations, intentions, and hence to influence the formation of personality. Interests are closely connected with powers. However, there is full compliance, as manifested interest in something does not mean “Wake-up” the corresponding capacity. The breadth of interests associated with the horizon, the curiosity of man.
Children “addicting nature”, however, needs to cool their ardor, when they start any business: without passion there is no creativity, success. It is important to instill in them a responsible attitude to any business and a habit to finish what you’ve started. The child should experience the fun, “light” not only at the beginning of the case, but in the end of it, to enjoy the result of their labor, to strive for new knowledge, to even greater achievements, especially in the fact that it attracts.
This is the way to educating a wide stable interests, among which should be allocated one interest, expressing the main purpose of the child, the propensity for any activity. The main (Central) the interest is often associated with the manifestation Continue reading
Many parents suffer from the fact that their children do not obey. No matter how they fought, children are not being taken seriously and missing out on all deaf ears. More often than not, this applies to mothers, while fathers often children behave more collected and obediently, although not always. But this is sort of another topic.
So, if Your child does not listen, or rather, as if he can’t hear what you say does not accept your instructions and even threats, ignores most of your requests and instructions, and everyone does as he pleases, then most likely, it has nothing to do with bad character, genes, and such things. You just gave a weak spot in the wrong place at the wrong time. And we must begin, first and foremost, You have to follow certain rules of communication with the child so the child started to listen to you, hear you and do what you’re asking.
These rules should always be observed. However, let us clarify that we are talking about children up to 9-10 years.
Of course everything is relative and individual, but as a rule, if the child does not listen in 5-7 years – to resolve the problem in most cases is not that difficult. But, if the child is in the 11-12 and older do not respond to You, it’s a different situation. Continue reading