Raising boys, raising girls. The mysteries of parenting
  Try to understand, at least in the General laws of development. In front of the boys face the critical challenge of development, become a man. The Central role of…

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Children's fears and doubts
  Our children are growing, and with each passing year their fears change. Something remains in the past, something settles deep inside, so that later, in adult life to remind…

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What to do man, if ex-wife does not communicate with the child?

 

News Of Minsk. When the wife of Andrei Minevich left him, he was very worried and believed that she would change her mind. In vain. Tatiana just slammed the door and went underground. It was so deaf that neither the father nor the grandparents didn’t know what happened and where the missing wife, daughter and granddaughter.

Anna Minevich:

Angelina we do not see for a long time, and communicate to us does not give her mother, though, when applying for divorce, the son pointed to not prevent contact with the child. But she today hides it even from us.

What caused such hatred, ex-in-laws don’t know. But if the woman to drive to despair, she is ready for anything.

It will be delivered in Rogachev to his mother, else, say, somewhere, finds, in short, all sorts of fiction, notions and anything else, if only to wean the child away from us forever.

Recall that angelina’s mother left the family when married. A little later the formalities have been settled and the woman remarried, securing thereby horrifying statistics around the country.

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Today Belarus is one of the world leaders in the number of divorces. Last year in Minsk for 1,000 marriages had 728 divorces. Continue reading

Frothy stools in infants

A newborn child one concern: to sleep, eat and defecate. He could Wake up every 20-40 minutes every time to breastfeed and then – to poop. Here’s not a very fun life, the infant in the first months (with frequent stools was noted only in the first 6 weeks, and then becoming rarer), but the mother are all equal. And because a third of the infant’s existence is defecation, stool infant parent deserves close attention.

We have already talked about the fact that feces of the newborn have the right to be almost any color, though ideally, of course, must fit in a range of shades from light yellow to brown. But the consistency of it is more or less clear: it’s considered normal mushy stool. An often used example – “as apricot puree”.

Due to enzyme deficiency small intestine is not able to work ‘Mature” so that every possible “surprises”. Mucus, fragments of undigested food, blood, too watery or frothy stools should attract your attention. But focus should always be on the health of the child and the presence/absence of additional related symptoms. Because in nearly all cases “suspicious” of stool may be normal – in a few forms. And if you occasionally see a newborn child frothy stools with no other worrying signs – do not dwell on it. But if frothy stools has an unpleasant smell Continue reading

Children’s fears and doubts

 

Our children are growing, and with each passing year their fears change. Something remains in the past, something settles deep inside, so that later, in adult life to remind myself that some fear your child is already covered in the school years, and you, as his parent, can help him to overcome all his fictional and fictional “monsters”.

So, what fears “hurt” our children “elementary school” (6-9 years)? First of all, the greatest fear in this period can be called the fear of death, with both your own and loved ones for the baby people. Children 5-6 years become impressionable and consciously perceive very subtle all around. Is no exception and death. If the child learned from my grandmother that someone was killed by lightning, he can transfer this fear to myself: maybe during a thunderstorm to cry and run to mommy, on the one hand, to protect yourself from the other to make sure that mom and nothing happened. In this period we need to keep the child from severe situations. If, for example (God forbid), his grandfather became ill, around the panic rose, and the family calls an ambulance – try to alienate the child from this: persistent worries about the health of loved ones can turn into a phobia. Continue reading