Teach children to listen to music
  Today's parents less and less pay attention to, what music to listen to their child, remembering myself at that age and believing that each generation has its idols. From…

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Raising boys, raising girls. The mysteries of parenting
  Try to understand, at least in the General laws of development. In front of the boys face the critical challenge of development, become a man. The Central role of…

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What are mom

 

Mama — Baba Yaga

— Don’t eat, the doctor will come and give you a shot!

— Please hurry home, and then comes the bogeyman and drag you with me!

— You will not obey a police officer will pick you up!

— Don’t run away, get lost, and there was Baba-Yaga!

And why not to scare? He has something to fear. Otherwise, generally not to cope! We, when we were little, my mom listened to and feared.

— The time to sleep! March to their rooms! Only go for a minute to kiss grandma and dad. Nothing to ramble and whine, it’s time to sleep. I told you! Yes, and at night don’t need to jump, to run, to cry, to include light, call grandma, you’re big kids, remember what I said!

Get acquainted with the following character — mommy — Baba-Yaga.

This mom is trying to achieve the obedience of a child, threatening his requirements, ensuring obedience with anger and annoyance. If the little man does things differently then most often should be the punishment, including physical.

Baba Yaga rudely and peremptorily talking to children, only she knows what to do, so she points out, charge, head, diminishes a sense of their dignity, will not tolerate independence of children. She is easily Continue reading

Mom, I’m scared!

 

I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child. “Don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.

At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.

“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong. I realized this later on tonight.

The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told Continue reading

Friendship between man and woman. Is it possible?

 

Friendship between a man and a woman. Is it possible?

The problem of friendship between a man and a woman has long been of concern to many psychologists and sociologists in our country and around the world. On this topic conducted surveys and studies, conducted numerous discussions. The main purpose of these studies is to ascertain the possible existence of a true friendship between a man and a woman. Certainly, many of us have also asked this interesting question. And is it possible friendship between a man and a woman ?

The influence of society on the friendship between a man and a woman

According to scientists, the idea that to be friends men and women are not destined, dates back to ancient times. Then the man and woman to be together exclusively on the terms of marriage. Other options simply did not exist.

Today times have changed dramatically. Women and men in our time together, work, rest, exercise regularly, spend the weekend, go shopping, etc. It’s by no means that between them there is a romantic relationship.

Quite a long time in society it was considered that the main purpose of the friendship between a man and a woman is only the creation of family and birth of children. The researchers argue that the friendshipbetween man and woman is either completely ignored, or acknowledged to be insignificant. Continue reading