I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who looked about four years, lagged behind, clinging to the railing and cried: “no, No, mom, I’m scared!” The mother, whose hands were full of parcels, continued to pull the child. “Don’t be such a baby, and she said to her – I’m embarrassed for you. There is nothing terrible”.
At this point, tall silver-haired man, who was waiting to get on the escalator, leaned over to the little girl and said, “You know what it is? This is the ladder for young rabbits. At night when the store is closed, they jump on the stairs. It’s their favorite game. But during the day the rabbits are scared of people and hide, allowing boys and girls to go on their stairs for the night.” The girl looked at him. Then with a serious expression trustingly took his hand and together they went up the escalator.
“How wonderful”, I thought to myself. Must this man has children and grandchildren, since he knows so well to distract the child. But something about this situation forced me to return again and again to her. Everything was so cute and yet something was wrong. I realized this later on tonight.
The trouble was that although the girl and persuaded to climb the escalator, no one told Continue reading
Can today’s children to empathize, to respond emotionally to the experience of the other? Unfortunately, the corrosive impact of our television has done its job: the children hard to get up mentally in the place of another person, experiencing some feelings. Scenes of violence led to the fact that children were not sensitive to the pain of another person.
Although children usually stronger empathize than adults, but it is more common in pre-school, early age. Adult touches like 2-3 year old toddlers can chorus to cry because one of them “Bobo”, the surprising insensitivity of 7-year-old boys tormenting a cat with kittens, and affects the cruelty of girls 15 years of age, to death pocketing his classmate. But, after all, they are not born, they have no aggression at age one! Where’s it come from? Yes, I understand that no mother, no father teaches the child to do evil, bad things. But good teaching is not many. At preschool age want parents to understand clearly – aggression often manifests as protection, due to emotional instability. The child at this age is still difficult to understand our complicated adult world of human Continue reading
Sometimes you can afford a little prank, but we need to think about the consequences, as if it’s a prank that turns into a pattern.
Aphorism by an unknown author
A well-known fact that all of our habits, and harmful, and quite harmless, from childhood. Even such harmful habit as Smoking, according to researchers, is laid at a time when adolescents or adults still went under the table.
Where are the habits? How they are formed and fastened? How to instill in your child good habits and prevent the formation of harmful? The answers to these questions gave Irina kholdeeva, family psychologist family club «Peace movement”.
– What is a habit? What are they?
– Habit — it’s some kind of repetitive action, which we are not aware, there is an effect on the unconscious level. Habits are the Foundation of our character and even our beliefs. It’s no secret that habits are different: useful and harmful. There are also hygienic (or household) habits, which include morning washing, washing hands before meals, morning gymnastics, the habit of being neat and tidy, get up early, a habit to keep household items, educational supplies were always in place, in good condition. Allocate and moral habits, manifested Continue reading